How To Help Your Kids Set Goals, According To Age Group

Family high fiving for setting New Years goals together

There’s something special about the clean slate of a new year. It’s a chance to dream a little bigger, make room for growth, and try something new. And while we often think about our own goals—like staying more organized or slowing down—this moment is just as powerful for kids.

Helping your child set their own goals (big or small!) builds more than good habits. It boosts their confidence, fuels independence, and gives you a shared path to walk together. Whether it’s reading more books, learning to tie their shoes, or being a kinder friend, goal setting becomes a tool for connection.

Not sure where to start? We’ve gathered a few age-appropriate ideas to help your kids dream big—and make progress that feels meaningful to them. Because when goals match their world, kids are more likely to stick with them (and even have fun along the way).

Here are some age-appropriate ideas to help you get started:


Preschoolers (Ages 3-5)

At this stage, kids are learning foundational skills and routines. Focus on simple, achievable goals that build independence and confidence.

Goal Ideas:

  • Learn to dress themselves (buttoning a shirt or tying shoes).
  • Follow a morning or bedtime routine with minimal parental oversight.
  • Practice sharing toys and taking turns during playtime.
  • Try one new food each week to expand their palate.

Early Elementary (Ages 6-8)

Kids in this age group thrive on structure and love seeing their progress. Goals should encourage responsibility and curiosity.

Goal Ideas:

  • Complete daily chores, like making their bed or setting the table.
  • Read a new book or chapter each week.
  • Learn to save money for something special.
  • Join a new activity, like a sport or club, to explore their interests.

Older Elementary (Ages 9-12)

This is a great time to encourage kids to take ownership of their schedules and responsibilities. Goals should help them build independence and self-discipline.

Goal Ideas:

  • Plan and prepare a simple meal for the family once a week.
  • Organize and clean their room without reminders.
  • Practice a hobby or skill, like playing an instrument or coding, for 20 minutes a day.
  • Participate in a community service project.

Teenagers (Ages 13-18)

Teens are ready for more complex, long-term goals. Encourage them to focus on personal growth, time management, and exploring their passions.

Goal Ideas:

  • Create a study schedule to prepare for exams or college applications.
  • Volunteer regularly to support a cause they care about.
  • Save for a big purchase, like a bike or a trip.
  • Start a personal project, like writing a book, launching a blog, or learning a new language.


Tips for Goal-Setting Success

Regardless of their age, these tips can help your kids stay motivated and achieve their goals:

  • Keep It Achievable: Start small and build up to bigger challenges.
  • Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge their efforts, not just the end result.
  • Stay Flexible: Be ready to adjust goals as needed.
  • Model Goal-Setting: Share your own goals and show how you’re working toward them.


With Hearth Display, goal-setting becomes fun and empowering for kids:

  • Make plans happen: Turn “we’ll see” into actionable goals by scheduling activities.
  • Build lasting habits: Create adaptable routines that grow with your kids.
  • Work toward goals: Recurring to-dos build responsibility and track progress.
  • Organize it all: Kid-friendly lists manage books, packing lists, and ideas.


With Hearth, your family can focus on growing together while staying on track—one goal at a time! Shop Now.